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Thursday, October 1, 2009

Once Again, The only constant in Life is CHANGE

I realize that I have not written a post in quite a long time. My life has been so full of work, participation in my social networks, spending time with my family and YES even traveling!

The wonderful news is that I drove to New Jersey for a 6 day visit with friends and family. This is the farthest I've driven my car since before I had my stroke! The trip was pleasant with no ill effects (on me or my car). I spent time with some friends who had not seen me since BEFORE my Brain Attack. They were quite impressed with my Recovery to date. Now I have 16,000 miles on the Yaris that I bought June 2008. I believe this to be an extremely positive fact!

The sad news (or change) is that I am currently in the process of getting a divorce from my husband. I will spare the details out of respect for him. My gratitude towards Matthew will stay with me forever for the support he gave me during and after October 20, 2005. My prayers are with him that he finds what he is searching for.

Yes in a few shorts weeks I will be four years Post-Stroke and I feel so blessed! I am finding myself capable of taking care of myself and my business with a few adjustments to the way I did Pre-Stroke.

I believe that I said over a year ago that I started this Blog as therapy for myself. It has certainly been therapeutic and more. I have met many, many people from all around the world through this venue. My gratitude is endless. I do feel, however, that the plateau I have reached may be the reason for my lack of Posts. I am not going to stop blogging, but my posts will be less frequent as my life has become so full. There have been many people who have touched my life in one way or another through this process. I thank each and every one of you. God Bless, Lori

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Thursday, May 28, 2009

Busier Than Ever!!!!!


This Recovering Stroke Victim has had her hands full recently, and has had very little time to write Posts. I certainly am grateful that my life is so FULL now. It seems that my recovery is going faster and faster, although my residual deficits remain the same! I now have over 10,000 miles on that "New Car" that I bought just last June. Very hard to believe that time is going by so quickly.

My network of friends and co-workers is growing at the same rapid pace, and I am feeling very fulfilled and motivated. It is still hard to believe that just over a year ago I was still unable to drive, use this computer, and take care of myself. My independence is one of my most valued assets, therefore, I am so truly happy to have it back!

I have a Tomato Plant, some herbs, and a flowering plant on my porch this year. Taking care of them is quite enjoyable and soon I will share the "fruits" of this labor with family and friends. Kalliope is a full grown cat who has been weaned from her kitten food. She is a wonderful companion and still more fun than watching TV.

Sammy (the Indian Ring Neck Parakeet) has gone to a new owner and he is very happy. He has much more attention and I am hopeful that he will learn to speak now that he is two years old.

There have been some other changes in my life that I will write about soon! To be continued . . .

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Tuesday, April 28, 2009

World Hunger


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I was asked to write a Post about World Hunger and post it on April 29th. I would like to educate my readers to a wonderful website called World Vision.org!

http://www.worldvision.org

How can I help the poor through World Vision?

By helping children living in such extreme poverty we can enable them to experience the fullness of life God offers. Join World Vision and individuals all over the world as we seek to bring compassion and justice to the world's poorest people. As a child sponsor, you can help save a child from a life of poverty.

What is child sponsorship?

Wonderful things happen when you make the choice to sponsor a child. For only about $1 a day, you'll show your child God's unconditional love by providing them with access to critical resources such as:

  • Clean Water
  • Nutritious food
  • Health care
  • Education
  • And more!

How does sponsorship work?

The benefits you help provide extend to each child's family, their community, and other children in need. That's because World Vision plans and works alongside local community members to find soltuons that will change the future for their children, and their children's children.

Will I get to know my sponsored child?

You'll also have the chance to build a reltionship with you sponsored child that will transform both your lives. "I know my sponsor," says Solange, an 11-year-old sponsored girl from Rwanda. "She writes me letters. I love her very much."

Hunger is a real issue in our own country. A website that I have visited can be found at:

http://www.npr.org

Morning Edition, March 23, 2009 · Forget Spago Beverly Hills. The hottest place to eat in Los Angeles right now serves food out of a truck and owes a large part of its success to Twitter.

Kogi, which offers a unique combination of Mexican and Korean food, is a modern variation of the taco trucks that have long been popular on the streets of L.A.

"I tracked down Kogi Friday night," reads a posting on Yelp, the local-business review site. "Life as I know it has ceased to exist. I want Korean BBQ tacos, I want them now and I want them every day for the rest of my life."

Standing In Line For Hours

On a recent evening, hundreds of people stood in line in L.A.'s Little Tokyo neighborhood to try the much-heralded tacos. Chuck Chun, who drove in from Orange County, waited an hour and a half to place his order for $26 worth of food.

Chun found the truck with the help of a tool that has become the necessity of any serious foodie these days — a Twitter account.

"You've got to go on Twitter to get the most up-to-date news on what kind of specials they have that day or where they are," Chun explains. "They actually got here late — that's what they announced on their Twitter."

It's so 2009: Customers instantly know where the truck is, even if actually getting the food takes hours.

Mario Duarte also located the truck using Twitter.

"It really was delicious," Duarte says after scarfing down a spicy chicken taco while sitting on the ground.

"It had the Korean sweetness from the kimchi mixed with the heat of Mexican food and the fire of a taco like you only get off a taco truck," he adds.

Sidewalk Interaction

There's a sight here you don't always see in car-centric L.A.: People hanging out on the sidewalk while eating, socializing and listening to music.

It took the virtual world of Twitter to bring about all this face-to-face interaction. And that's exactly the point, according to Kogi's head chef, Roy Choi.

"You have all these neighborhoods now where people come out when they usually just got in their car and went to a mini-mall," Choi says. "Now they're coming out to their streets, talking to their neighbors."

From Four Stars To A Truck

Choi has spent most of his career in four-star restaurants. His Kogi biography points out that he finished in the top of his class at the Culinary Institute of America.

Now Choi is crammed into the tiny kitchen in Culver City, Calif., where he and other chefs prepare the food that goes out on two trucks. Kogi, which means meat in Korean, also recently added a bricks-and-mortar location.

The most popular item on the menu is the short rib taco stuffed with marinated beef and topped off with lettuce, cabbage chili salsa and cilantro relish.

"Our vinaigrette has 14 ingredients, our marinade has 20 ingredients, our meats are all natural meats," Choi says. "And we sell it for $2."

With lines so long, it seems like Kogi could easily double prices and still attract plenty of customers. However, Choi says he wants nothing more than to cover expenses and make a very small profit.

Culinary Exploration Of L.A.

He also wants Kogi to stay true to its roots, even if the company is only a few months old.

Kogi began as "an idea born from late night hunger," the business' Web site says. Choi and his partners were interested in a hobby, not a job. They wanted to make new dishes while exploring new parts of L.A.

The only problem was that when Choi brought his Korean tacos to the streets of L.A., no one quite knew what to make of them.

"The first couple weeks we were out there, people were laughing at us because they just couldn't conceptualize what it was," Choi recalls.

Tech-Savvy Marketing

He credits a large degree of Kogi's success to hiring a new-media consultant who helped spread the word of Kogi virally.

"As a chef, I always think it's the food, but I think without Twitter it wouldn't be anything," Choi says, "because I could have made these tacos, but I would have had no one to sell them to."

Kogi not only has over 8,000 followers on Twitter, it has customers so loyal they've created YouTube tributes and a song ("Ode to Kogi") on MySpace.

But the Web hasn't been all so fawning.

One Kogi dissident created an imposter Twitter account promoting fake events like taco bikini Saturday, and fake dishes like solar-cooked pork, cooked on the roof of the truck. Worse, they lured people to fake locations.

The real Kogi owners take it all in stride.

Imitation, as the saying goes, is the sincerest form of flattery.

I have always believed that "feeding hungry people" has to come before any other form of "charity". When people are hungry, they cannot work, learn, or take care of their children. When people don't eat, they DIE. We are "One Race - Human", and we all deserve to NOT BE HUNGRY!

Respectfully submitted,

Lori Cordeiro

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Wednesday, April 8, 2009

The Only Constant in Life is Change


This is a painting of a lighthouse that Jimmy painted and I love it!


My Life has consisted of both happy and sad changes.

Happy first!  I finally started working part -time at the nursing home that I have been volunteering at.  I am the Assistant to the Activities Director, it is so much fun!  I still volunteer 2 hours every Thursday as well, and I visit with my Adopted Grandmother, Elizabeth.
The "residents" appreciate my sense of humor and my ability to help them with their activities!  The staff supports me and answers my question when I have them.  Who ever knew that having a job could be so much fun!  I LOVE IT.

Sad, second :-( My brother-in-law died at home this past Monday at 5:30 pm. He was 58 years old.  His name is Jimmy (short for James) and I loved him very much.  I am not sad that he died as he was in great pain.  I am sad for his wonderful wife, their children and the family members that will miss him very much.

When my former husband Frank died, Jimmy and Nanette where there for me in countless ways.  They gave me love and support, helped me with many of the "necessary tasks" that occur when a Spouse dies. I will always be grateful for their friendship, and being part of my life and family.

I do know that the only "Constant", in life IS "Change". Most people don't like change for various reasons.  My opinion is that "change" is good (life would be pretty boring without it).  I can accept change even when I don't like what is changing.

Some other changes (probably only important to me) have occured recently.  Kalliope is being weaned to Adult Cat Food, (she will be one year old on May 27th).  My new car has over 8,000 miles on it and I drive everywhere, anytime, fair or foul weather.  My cousin's daughter is in Iraq serving our country with the Marines.  Most important of all, my grand daughter turned sweet 16 in February!  

Having a stroke was devastating at first, but now I feel it has been a Blessing.  I am still not fully recovered (physically), but my Independence has returned, I am not afraid of anything, and I look forward to the rest of life's changes!

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Tuesday, February 17, 2009

I Have Been Very Busy!


Wow, I just realized that I have not written a post since January 22nd!
This
Recovering Stroke Survivor has been very busy. I started the "volunteer job" at the nursing home on January 15th. I love it! I go one day a week for 2-4 hours.
I have adopted a grandmother, her name is Elizabeth. One day when I was there volunteering she was very depressed because she said she did not get very many visits. I kissed her, hugged her and told her I was going to adopt her. She thought that was great and it made her smile. The next week when I went to volunteer the Activities Director was giving the "clients" a Valentine's Party. Before I left my home, I made a "valentine" for Elizabeth, and I purchased a gift for all of the others. I arrived early, put hearts on my forehead and cheeks with my lipstick (which made everyone laugh), and went to find my new grandmother to give her the "valentine"! Elizabeth did not remember me, but she loved the valentine and she seemed to be happier than the previous week.
The party was WONDERFUL. They had a "Pianist who Sang" for entertainment. We decorated the main dining room. It was transformed into a fantasy with flowers, helium balloons, tablecloths, doilies shaped like hearts, etc. I went around "planting kisses with my lipstick" onto foreheads and cheeks. We served everyone cake, ice cream, marshmallow hearts, punch, and cupcakes. The sugar high was fun for so many of the people. We sang along with the Pianist, danced, clapped, cheered, and had SO MUCH FUN! As we were cleaning up "Rita" called me over to her table. She gave me a valentine that she had made for me along with a gift. It made me so happy I cried. When we were all done cleaning up it was time for me to go home.
I drove all the way home (4 miles) with a balloon tied to me, the lipstick hearts still on my face, my card and gift, smiling all the way! They say "if you give, you will receive". This is certainly true in my life.

On a sadder note, my brother in law is dying of Liver Cancer. He is at home with hospice and his wonderful wife. I love these people very much. I have been out to visit with them four times now (they live an hour and a half away) and other family members have gone out as well. I am going again this Saturday with my sister-in-law. I have given my brother's wife permission to call me day or night if she needs me and I will be there as fast as my car can get me there. I will not be going for my brother, I will be going to support his wife. I'm very good at this and the best present I can ever give anyone is "my
presence". I am so grateful that I can drive, that I have a car, that I have a flexible schedule, and that I have the WILLINGNESS to help.


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Thursday, January 22, 2009

Planned Parenthood!

I was asked to write a post today regarding the Planned Parenthood Action Fund. The following facts are "quoted" directly from the Planned Parenthood website found at http://www.plannedparenthood.org/

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Planned Parenthood is a leader in working to eliminate barriers to basic reproductive health care services that are essential to the lives of billions of women and men worldwide. But limited access to health services, lack of political will, legal restrictions, social pressures, and harsh gender inequality all conspire to put women at risk of harm resulting from unintended pregnancy, unsafe abortion and childbirth, and sexually transmitted infections.

Here are the facts:

  • Worldwide, there are more than 200 million women who wish to avoid or delay pregnancy and who do not have access to modern contraception. And every minute of every day, a woman dies from a pregnancy-related cause.
  • More than 33 million people are living with HIV/AIDS worldwide. Tragically, 2.5 million people were infected in 2007 alone. About 40 percent of the new HIV infections among adults occur among young people ages 15-24, and young women are particularly at risk.
  • Worldwide, approximately 19 million unsafe abortions are performed annually, with the majority occurring in developing countries. According to the World Health Organization, they account for 13 percent of all maternal mortality, leading to approximately 68,000 deaths each year.
  • The number of people living in extreme poverty worldwide, on less than one dollar a day, exceeds 1.3 billion. Women account for the majority of people living in absolute poverty.

Improved access to birth control, pre- and post-natal care, and HIV prevention, testing, and counseling, among other services, can improve gender equality, maternal health, and child survival; reduce poverty; and allow women to take control of their lives

To protect the health and safety of women and men around the world, Planned Parenthood supports access to contraceptives, condoms, and reproductive health care worldwide.

These facts are real, the ideas are valid. Every woman "owns" her body, and deserves the right to choose, make mistakes, or get informed and decide to take healthy action! I hope I have done a service to this Cause by writing this Post.

And as always, I thank you for reading!


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Wednesday, January 21, 2009

President Barack Obama





My sister Rose gave me this Butterfly Award today! Thank you!



I spent January 20th 2009 participating in in the Inauguration of President Obama! I watched the TV news from about 10:30 until noon, when the Inauguration actually took place. Then I watched our 44th President give his speech, I cried tears of joy!

This evening I attended an Inaugural party in Norfolk, MA. Two of my High School classmates where there and the cousin of another classmate. I was so surprised and pleased to see them to reminisce and update.

There were about 40 people there to celebrate, I met most of them. We ate pizzas, drank Toasts, had multiple raffles of Obama
memorabilia, it was grand!

I spent many months since June 2008, volunteering for Obama/Biden through MoveOn.org. I believe MoveOn is a wonderful entity and I plan to do more with them in the future.

One of the hosts of the party tonight told me that he has read my Blog and I thanked him. I asked him (as I always do) to pass it on to anybody that may benefit from reading it. He said he would!

What a GREAT DAY, one that I will NEVER FORGET!!!
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